DON'T DIE, know the HEIMLICH

A couple of weekends ago, A. made a soup dish with some chicken breasts. Let me say that I am known to scoff food down, so that means I was not chewing my food the way I should have. To make a short story short, I got a piece of chicken stuck in my throat. At first I thought I would be able to get it down, so I kept swallowing. Before I knew it, I was in a life or death situation. I ran to the sink and tried to scream the meat out. That didnt work!

Anthony then came over and calmly performed the Heimlich maneuver on me. The meat was immediately dislodged and I was still alive. 3 things I learned:
1. A. still has my back, dont know that he never did. And I joke with A. that I owe him for at least one year.
2. More importantly, chew your food enough so that you can swallow!
3. Know how to perform the Heimlich maneuver on yourself.
I dont like to think about what might have happened if A. had not been there. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A PIECE OF FURNITURE NEARBY THAT IS THE APPROPRIATE HEIGHT THAT YOU CAN PUSH YOUR BODY UP AGAINST IN THE EVENT THAT THIS HAPPENS TO YOU AND YOU ARE ALONE!

New Angles (Angels)

I recently updated my facebook status by saying that on one particular rough day, I had beautiful angels all around me, so many angels that the devil rolled up his window and drove away. All of the people below are Angels in one form or another. Whether it be an artist testing the boundaries and questioning individualism or a positive role model for the kids...a man telling the world who he is with no regret or a guy helping a celebrity get back her model figure. Doing a good deed or being honest will always help yourself and the recipient see a new angle on life.

Erykah

All I am going to say is that I like this video, but I like the song "Window Seat"better and her new cd even better. Check out the video and listen to the full album below on her website:




http://www.erykahbadu.com/

Vernon Davis

Saw my dude Vernon Davis on this new E Entertainment reality show: Pretty Wild. I cant say that I will watch this show anymore unless Vernon shows up again with that dynamic smile. I'm not mad at Ms. Alexis...flirting her ass off.

Ricky

Dude came out! What an inspiration he will be for generations to come. His bravery will make it easier for so many others. Thank you, Ricky!

JR Rogers or Who's That Guy?

If you are looking for another reason to watch Kirstie Alley's new A&E reality series Kirstie Alley's Big Life, check out her personal trainer JR Rogers. Enuf said.

See more here:

http://www.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/1176760/0

SPARTACUS

I do not have STARZ, the cable channel, but thanks to the Internet, I have still been able to watch STARZ's first original series based on the legends of the Roman Empire: SPARTACUS BLOOD And SAND. It stars Andy Whitfield as Spartacus.

I am smitten with this series and highly recommend it. Plenty of action, gore and treachery. Plus the series is not bad on the eyes if you know what I mean. It even features Lucy Lawless of Xena Worrier Princess in a lead role. You can see episodes from the first season here: http://www.starz.com/originals/spartacus or here: http://watchspartacus.com/

The series also stars Peter Mensah and Manu Bennett.
I also just learned that the star of the series played by Andy Whitfield was just diagnosed with non-Hodgkin lymphona in the early stages. Production on the 2nd season has been postponed while the star Mr. Whitfield is undergoing treatment. I pray that he will get through this.

Rebirth

There's a reason my blog is named EVOLVING BLACKNESS. Evolving, reinvention, rebirth is a concept that is close to my heart and a process I continually go through.

I was just watching the ending of one of my favorite movies: Working Girl starring Melanie Griffith. At the end of the movie as the character Tess has finally evolved from secretary to corporate big shot, there is an outside shot of her window that pans out to reveal the city skyline.

Yes, as the credits roll, there are the Twin Towers. I have no doubt that the Towers have been used in many movies that are set in New York and that I have probably never noticed them each time they are featured. That has changed for all time. Now whenever I recognize that a movie is set in the Big Apple, that is one of the first things I look for, whether the movie is old or new.

As soon as that movie went off, the remake of "The Women" came on, starring Meg Ryan. This was eery indeed, because this movie starts out with the skyline of New York and it is so obvious that the Twin Towers are missing and will forever be in new movies post 9/11.

I was instantly sad but came to grips with this fact. We must all get through the tragedies in our lives and try to move on as best we can. With the example of a great city, and in the wake of tragedies that have befallen Haiti and Chile, we need look no further when we need inspiration to pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and take our misfortunes and turn them into testimonies of how to survive and be reborn.

Beginning after the End

Almost 2 years ago, I started this blog in a little Chicago eatery called the Patio. I was with A. at the time and A. introduced me to the world of coffee shops and places that you could connect your laptop to WiFi. Although I resisted like crazy, once I started writing, I was secretly hooked and longed and wondered for the day when I would be able to venture out on my own to fulfill this new creative lust. Well, here I am...at Caribou Coffee...finally...and alone...on my own. I find it hard to believe that I haven't done this more. But when you breath and live within the shadows of another, it's hard to venture forth and be brave to do the things you love. Let's be clear, I did not know that I loved this: writing live in public...but I do. It's so exciting. I have never said this aloud, not without using innuendos, but brave people have to be honest and tell the world. Here goes: A. and I are broken up, not together that way anymore. There! I said it. But, as I enter into the world of being single and thus evolving once again (see title of blog :), I must thank A. for the introduction to my new love that is really my old love: writing. And as a write my fictional work that is very loosely based on my life with A. I feel I have been brought full circle. A day alone with many thoughts of the past that will help fuel my future and the tales I will tell.

To Save A Life

One of my students asked me if I had heard of this movie titled: "To Save A Life." I had not. Anytime there is a buzz about a movie that I have not heard of, it makes me very curious...so when I found out it was playing at a theatre in Chicago, I was determined to view the film this past weekend.

A. and I went to see the movie and all I am going to say is please go see this film. http://www.tosavealifemovie.com/index.php

HERE Like Precious

I have been saying that I am going to restart this blog for some time now. And now almost a year and a half later, here I am. How did I get here? Well, GOD sure does work in mysterious ways. I wasnt even thinking about my lost blog.
I am sitting at work right now in the break room. I was just checking email while listening to Barack Obama give his State of the Union speech. Now if you will remember, the very last time I wrote, it was about Barack Obama and his impending presidency. He has struggled lately in the polls as I have struggled in my life. We are both just trying to get it right if I can compare us for a minute. But back to how I am sitting here typing out words again.
As I was checking my emails, I noticed one from Blogger. It appears I set my Blogger settings to notify me if I receive any comments; and I can then publish or reject the comment/s. My first hurdle was remembering my password to log in, it had been that long. But I finally remembered it.
The actual comment was pretty nice, saying something like: thank you...but then it went on to say check out this other blog. OK, I checked out the other blog and I was not impressed. While having comments on my blog are great, I cannot post any that I feel do not meet with my approval. And so I rejected the comment. But then, after I did that, I saw the tab: New Post. Couldnt resist, it was so clear that I needed to get back on here.
I am not going to promise to post weekly or even monthly, but I do hope to post as much as possible. You see, I was a writer in another life, the life I was surely letting slip away in the day to day misery that can consume a person. But no more misery, no more drama, no more sadness, no more pain. I had all of that in 2009 and I did not blog for that full year. It is time to write and be the writer, live and be Michael, the best artistic Michael I can be. Time to paint and draw and sew and make movies with the kids. I have already been exercising so that part is going good. Thank you young man that wanted to post on my blog. I am sorry I had to reject it, but I cannot, any longer, reject my life and the things that I like to do or the talents that GOD gave me that I havent been using. What it make me feel like to know these things about myself so surely? Answer: Here...